2 days later, and I'm back on track

Everyone has bad days. If you claim that you NEVER have a few in a row, I would call you a liar.

We're human. We're not perfect. That's what makes us who we are.

I have 3 beautiful, wonderful and loving kids. They are my whole world. PERIOD. As their mom, I get to teach them the tools and lessons that they will use time and time again in life. I teach them how to be kind, generous and to love themselves others. I teach them to be in control & responsible for their actions. I teach them that they will fail many times before they succeed, but that they must always keep trying because each failure teaches a lesson and makes them stronger. I tell them every day how much they are loved and how important it is to love yourself. I teach them that the only opinions that really matter in life are God's, their parents and their own.

Yet, even though I am a very good teacher and an excellent Mommy, I have to admit that over time, I've become a pretty crappy student. Sometimes, it's necessary to take a step back, shut-up, and (on rare occasion) let your students become your teacher.

Last night, as I was washing dishes and cleaning the kitchen, my 12 year old daughter came up to me and told me that she could tell I was losing weight, and that I looked great. I did my automatic response of, "No, I haven't. I'm still so fat." Then she said,

"Mom, why are you always putting yourself down?
You need to learn to accept a compliment and realize that you are doing a really good job."

That shut me up.

She was absolutely right. A 12 year old put me in my place.

How can I expect others to support me, to believe in me and to encourage me, when I can't even accept a compliment? The bottom line is, until I believe in myself, until I can encourage myself and love myself (faults and all), neither will others around me.

So I made a few mistakes and have been a victim of my self sabotage...who hasn't? Time to put my big girl panties on, learn from my mistakes and keep trying. I can't get to my goal weight by sitting in self pity. I'll never be on the "stage of victory" if I don't climb the steps.

1 Corinthians 9:24: Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one receives the prize? So run that you may obtain it.

And that, my friends, is what I'm going to do. I'll see you at the finish line. I'll be the one crying and accepting compliments.

Mind Hunger

I'm afraid that I've been struggling.

There is trouble in paradise.

So, you get to read it, and judge me (or not), because this is where I need to record my...umm...faults...so that I can learn from then and move on. This is where I journal every good and bad moment, to recollect when I meet my goal...to remind myself just how much I fought to be there.

I have been so weak these past few days. Seriously, a mentally weak fool.

I've given into every occasion that my "mind hunger" surfaces, that good old monster named Personal Sabotage.

I've eaten cookies, chips (a lot), and even CANDY, POPCORN and FRIES. What is wrong with me?!? I KNOW they are bad. I KNOW how hard it will be to straighten back out once I "let" myself give in. I KNOW how much energy and effort it takes to burn just a tenth of what I've eaten. And, despite knowing that, despite telling myself while in the act, I continued to eat.

Gosh, I feel like such a failure. Like such a little weak minded fool. Like the me who wants to stay strong and on-course was pushed into the corner and forced to stay there watching in disgust while Mr. Sabotage ate away. An now, here I am, left with the aftermath of my weakness.

Am I really THIS weak? Am I really THIS broken?

I referred to my vision board for some encouragement...and this caught my eye:

A bad day is OK. A bad week, not so much. Giving up? Not an option.

Ok, so I fell off the wagon...again....

The only time I have truly FAILED is when I stop trying, right?

Lord, give me strength to keep my priority and goal in sight. Grant me the strength to keep my mind hunger and monsters at bay and the will to overcome their temptations. Give me the strength I need to be in control of my body and mind, and the power to say no and walk away.

Amen.

2nd month comfort dangers

Today is week 5 for me and my Isa journey. I've found that since I did so well with my first month, I'm slowly becoming more lackadaisical with my eating habits and strictness.

This is not good.

I've been allowing myself to eat baked tortilla chips and salsa as part of my meals, rationalizing the chips as my carbs and the salsa as my veggies. I've been allowing myself to be careless with my eating schedule, which in turn ignites my hunger pangs to become ravenous, thus willing me to over eat.

This is not good.

I've been more relaxed and prone to temptation when it surfaces, and even noticed once that I was eating while in conversation just because the snack food was out! Oy vey!!

This is not good!

I have suffered the consequence for my nonchalant and reckless attitude; I haven't lost a single ounce in 2 weeks.

Zip. Zilch. Nada. And, I know, it is completely MY fault.

One thing that is good however, is that I recognize it. I own it. I am accountable and ready to self correct. Ready to get back on the horse and act as though this is my first week, not my 5th. Ready to take my weaknesses and errors and play them to my advantage by revamping my routine.

Alterations will be as follows

1. Typically, based solely on the day I started Isa, my cleanse days are Wednesday & Thursdays. Not anymore. Weekends are the days when I actually spend a little time at home, thereby allowing myself to make poor choices due to bountiful temptations. Therefore, the weekends are now going to be my new cleanse days.
2. I am a snacker. There, I've said it. I like to snack at social gatherings, when my kids and I get home and start homework, when I watch TV... While I can subdue MOST of these urges/habits, there are times when snacking is beneficial to my body as well as my mind...like in between my shake/meal/shake. Therefore, every weekend, while I'm cleansing, I will prepare pre-measured snack bags of items allowed items that are suitable for snacking (almonds, apples, walnuts, isa delights). Why snack baggies? Because, for me, convenience is key.
3. It is easy for me to get discouraged and lose sight of my ultimate goal when I don't SEE radical and daily results. I know that is unrealistic, still, it's the truth. I made a vision board to help inspire me every morning and to remind me that I can do this. The sale is NOT my friend. No, it is not. I promised to only weight myself once a week, but I lied. I really need to hold true to that promise and only weigh in on measure days, which is every 2 weeks. A bit brash? Perhaps. But it is definitely what I need.
4. Since I am so easily discouraged and tend to lose focus, I made a vision board. It will be posted, much to my husband's dismay, on our bathroom mirror. I need to see it every morning; to read the words that I feel motivate and compel me to be my best "me". I will also write little post it notes in subtle and hidden spots to remind me when, let's say, I open the chip cabinet, that should I make that choice, I will be sabotaging myself. Little phrases like, "It takes an hour of brisk walking to burn off a handful of chips. Is it worth it?
   
5. While many people tend to make excuses for their inability to exercise CLAIMING that they don't have time, I really don't have time. Therefore, I need to figure a way to squeeze it into my very well organized and full schedule. Excuses are just reasons for people who don't want to try. That isn't me. I can walk/jog during my son's football practice and when my daughter is in her dance class. There. Problem solved.

So, routine tweaked...mind redirected...ready for month # 2

One Month Updated Photos

Here they are! My one month progress photos.

WOWZERS!

Major mood swings...

I woke up this morning completely energized, excited to start my Friday, and so happy to have completed my 5th cleanse. I was in a GREAT mood!

15 minutes later, I was showered and ready to pick out a Fall-ish type outfit since the weather dropped from the 90's to 50's in 3 days (yeah, welcome to the desert). I walked into my closet, so excited and ready to SLIP into a pair of jeans, certain they would be baggy...only to find that they were SUPER tight. I went from being so happy to the most angry and confused I've been in MONTHS.

What. The. HELL?!

I tried on pair after pair, only to repeat the outcome each and every time.

The definition of INSANITY is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result. This morning, I was completely insane.

Major BAD mood.

After unintentionally taking my disappointment, anger and frustration on my kids, I was able to calm down, and my anger and frustration morphed into defeat and depression. I just felt so hopeless. Like, no matter what I do, I keep going in this circle of losing 10 pounds, gaining 20, loosing 20 pounds, gaining 30. I mean, after all, that's how I got to be so overweight. It is so discouraging.

During my 25 minute drive to work, it was all I could think about. I didn't even have the radio on. I was just thinking the whole time. My thought process went something like this:

"I can't believe I don't fit into my winter clothes!
How could I have GAINED so much over the summer?
How did I not even notice that I had gained?
How can those 14 pounds not be showing a difference yet?
How did I gain weight?!
How could I have let myself go AGAIN?!?

But just wait a minute.....

Imagine how you would feel if you hadn't lost those 14 pounds in the past 31 days.
Imagine if you hadn't tried Isagenix and were still hopeless and helpless about your weight?
But you're not hopeless or helpless, because you ARE on Isagenix.
You did lose 14 pounds in 31 days and you ARE going to keep losing.
Imagine how you're going to feel in another 31 days when you're down another 5-10 pounds.
And imagine how by the end of winter, it won't be you that is too big to fit your jeans, it will be your jeans that are too big to fit you!
Imagine going in your closet and feeling HAPPY that NOTHING fits!
In 31 days you have lost 14 pounds and 22".
You should be so proud of yourself!"

Back to being encouraged and optimistic.

I hate when I'm so moody!

One whole MONTH down!

Can I just say one thing?

Ahh-Maize-Zing

That's how I feel. Truly. Simply. Totally.

Today is such a fabulous day. My baby turned 5 today (boo hooo hoo!), it's payday, the week is half done....and it also marks ONE MONTH that I've been on Isagenix!

M measurements this morning were

Weight: 202.6
Inches lost: 20.5

So, total weight lost this month is 13 POUNDS and 20.5 inches.

Seeing as how today is my daughter's birthday, let's compare my loss to her birth stats.

Jadyn was 5 weeks early and a tiny little peanut (She's still pretty tiny), and weighed in at 5 pounds 14 oz and measured at 18.5".

So, to put things in perspective here...I've lost a little over TWICE what she weighed at birth and 2" OVER her length in overall inches.

I've already shared a photo of me with her when she was born, but here is one of just her, all curled up in her newborn cuteness, just so you get an idea of what we're talking about here....

Yeah, I'm that awesome.

I am so thrilled to be on this journey. This path that is finally leading to a new life. A healthy life where I can regain control of my life. I know that the times ahead are going to be challenging. I've been so much more tempted to give in to Mr. Sabotage because I have been doing so well. My old habit of rewarding myself with a weekend off the diet had been trying to resurface, but I am so stinking proud that I have held strong and true.

I cannot wait to see how much I change in the next 5 months. I hope to be able to post a current picture of my little 5 year old to compare my weight loss with her current stats. Won't that be something to be able to say that in 6 months, I have lost a complete 5 year old's weight and inches?!

I know it can be done!